Cover Singaporean author Kyla Zhao (Photo: Kyla Zhao)

Inspired by her own experience of playing chess competitively as a child, Kyla Zhao pens her first children’s novel tackling sexism in the sport

During the pandemic, Kyla Zhao’s friends at Stanford University picked up online chess. What they didn’t know, however, was that their author-friend had played the sport competitively since the age of six. “I participated in competitive tournaments throughout my primary and secondary school years. I was even fortunate enough to be selected for Singapore’s national junior squad. However, I gradually witnessed more and more female friends drop out of chess, and I also grew increasingly aware of the negative stereotypes attached to female chess players,” says the Gen.T Leader of Tomorrow

“By the time I reached junior college, I had completely stopped playing competitively. I still played casually online, followed the game as a spectator, interned at the Singapore Chess Federation, and even organised a national tournament for young girls. But it was as though I could only allow myself to enjoy chess if I didn’t have anything at stake personally.” 

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Above Zhao with her latest book, ‘May the Best Player Win’ (Photo: Kyla Zhao)

This experience inspired her to write her latest book, May The Best Player Win. This marks her third book after The Fraud Squad and Valley Verified, and her first book for children. 

Zhao underwent a period of introspection and asked herself why she decided to stop playing chess competitively as a child. Through this process, she uncovered the subtle, underlying sexism that pervaded the world of competitive chess and realised that her experience was in no way unique. This inspired her to write May the Best Player Win, which follows the adventures of May Li, who challenges the boys in her class that girls can play better than them. 

“Writing this book turned out to be a very cathartic experience—through my protagonist’s eyes, I rediscovered the magic of chess and was reminded of how I used to love the game so wholeheartedly. For a long time, my memories of chess were clouded by how I had quit, but now, I can focus on the happier times instead.”

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The author, who has a full-time job in a tech company in Silicon Valley, says the book took her four years to complete. She says, “I've found that capturing the authentic voice of a child requires a keen understanding of their perspective. I also wanted to avoid infantilisation and treat young readers with respect. Children are capable of understanding complex emotions and themes, and I believe it’s important to present these ideas in a way that is both engaging and age-appropriate.”

Here, we talk to her about the inspiration behind the book and why writing Asian characters is so important to her. 

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Above ‘May the Best Player Win’ tells the story of May Li, who challenges the boys that girls are better at chess than them (Photo: Kyla Zhao)

May the Best Player Win is your first children’s book. What inspired you to make this shift in your writing and explore the world of children’s literature?

Kyla Zhao (KZ): I wanted to write a story that I wish I had read when I was younger. As a child, I was incredibly passionate about chess but eventually dropped out of the competitive circuit due to performance anxiety and the isolation of being one of the few female players. May the Best Player Win is a novel that would have provided comfort and support during those challenging times, assuring me that other players faced similar struggles.

There still aren’t many children’s books about chess and other competitive sports. So I hope that May the Best Player Win reaches young readers at a crucial juncture in their lives when they might be questioning their passion for an activity. Hopefully, reading May’s story will help them through the self-doubt and uncertainty, just as I wish it had for me. 

How did the theme of healthy competition and sportsmanship come to be the central focus of May the Best Player Win?

KZ: There’s a reason why kiasu [it means fear of losing in Hokkien] is one of the most popular words in the Singapore lexicon. In this highly competitive culture, it’s easy to get swept up in the relentless pursuit of success and tangible rewards. My own experience with chess embodied this trend. As I became more focused on winning medals and avoiding losses, my passion for the game began to wane. 

Through hindsight, I realised that the key to enjoying chess, and any other activity, lies in the journey itself, not just the destination. I wanted May Li, the protagonist of May the Best Player Win, to learn this valuable lesson the hard way. By exploring the theme of healthy competition and sportsmanship, I hope to inspire readers to find balance and fulfilment in their pursuits.

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Can you pinpoint a specific moment or experience that sparked the idea for May the Best Player Win? Was there a particular question or challenge you aimed to address in this book?

KZ: During the pandemic lockdown in 2020, online chess soared in popularity. I was a third-year undergraduate student at Stanford University then and many of my college friends were starting to play chess. It hit me that none of them know I play chess because I’ve kept that part of myself locked away for so long. I couldn’t help but wonder, How far could I have gone if I had continued in chess? That in turn led to the bigger question: Why didn’t I continue in chess? The idea for May the Best Player Win was born from those two questions. 

From many conversations I’ve had with other players and coaches since then, I don't think this phenomenon is unique to me. At the lower levels and ages, the gender ratio is still fairly balanced—not 50/50, but the difference isn’t as stark. However, the chasm gets wider as we grow older and move up the levels. Many female players encounter a crucial crossroads around ages 10 to 14, where they question whether to continue playing chess or abandon it altogether. I faced this dilemma myself, and the decision to quit has always lingered with me. 

I wanted to write May the Best Player Win to offer support and guidance to young readers navigating this challenging time—in chess or any other activity. I hoped to address the self-doubt and anxiety that might prevent them from pursuing what brings them joy.

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Above Zhao was inspired by her own experience of playing chess competitively as a child (Photo: Kyla Zhao)

You’ve expressed a commitment to showcasing more Asian representation in your books. What personal significance does this hold for you?

KZ: I believe it’s crucial to see characters whom we can identify with and relate to. During my impressionable pre-teen and teen years, I often felt overlooked because the popular movies and books almost always featured blonde-haired, blue-eyed girls as the protagonists.

So for the longest time, I thought that only girls who looked like that could be the main character, while Asian girls like myself would be relegated to the role of the “nerdy sidekick”. I hope my books can inspire readers from Asian communities to see themselves reflected in the pages and feel empowered to believe they are worthy of the spotlight. I also hope that by writing stories which span various backgrounds and settings, I can contribute to showcasing the diversity and richness of the Asian diaspora.

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Your books explore themes like imposter syndrome, female leadership, and sexism. How do you approach making these complex themes accessible and relatable to a younger audience?

KZ: While these themes might seem complex for adults, they’re universal experiences that children can relate to in their own ways. In May the Best Player Win, I grounded these themes in relatable situations and events that young readers can connect with, like a snarky classroom remark.

I also drew inspiration from my own childhood experiences to create characters who face challenges like those faced by young readers today. For instance, when I was in primary school, I participated in a co-ed chess tournament. There, I overheard one boy telling another, “Don’t worry, you’re playing against a girl. Easy win.” That small incident made such a lasting impression on me that I still remember it to this day, over a decade since it happened. 

By making these themes accessible and relatable, I hope to empower young readers to recognise and address their own experiences with imposter syndrome and gender stereotypes.

If a young reader could only take away one key message or lesson from your book, what would you want it to be? 

KZ: May the Best Player Win is for anyone who has ever struggled with their passion and self-belief. While May is a chess prodigy, her struggles with the pressure to succeed and gender stereotypes are relatable to anyone who has faced challenges in pursuing their dreams. I hope May’s adventures inspire readers to hold on tightly to what brings them joy—regardless of other people’s opinions and expectations.  

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